There is little doubt that almost every girl or woman is looking for Mr. Right, the man who will sweep her off her feet and change everything. For some, the quest is easy: They find Mr. Right in one of the first few guys they date. Others need to pick through a haystack in order to find him. Here are some useful tips:
1. Look around: Do you have any male friends who might have a love interest in you that you have overlooked? Boyfriends who have first been friends already know your crazy habits and quirks. They usually make great boyfriends because they have come to love the real you.
2. If none of those friends is the one, keep looking in the right places. Stay out of the bars and nightclubs, where you're more likely to find Mr. Right Now than Mr. Right. Try meeting people in the store, at the park, at work or anywhere people hang out, and just talk. Libraries are also a great meeting place, but you have to whisper.
3. Once you've found Mr. I Think He's the Right One, spend time with him--but don't overdo it. Too much of a good thing will get on your nerves and his. Instead, spend a few days each week hanging out and a few days apart.
4. Never give yourself away too quickly. No one wants someone they can have completely so easily. Love yourself enough not to involve yourself in sexual acts before you are sure this is the one. Looking for Mr. Right is a lot different than looking for Mr. Fun or Mr. Good Time. It involves patience, persistence and devotion--not only to him, but also to yourself.
5 additional Steps to Finding a Boyfriend
Step 1: Create a Hotter You
Let's imagine that you are selling your used car. Naturally, you will do everything you can to spruce up your car before putting the for-sale sign in the windshield, because you want to leave a good impression with your potential buyers.
You should do the same for yourself. Pull out a full length mirror and take a good hard look. Nobody is perfect, but you should try and look your personal best. Below are a few quick tasks that you can do this week to look better fast.
Get Hot Fast:
# get a fresh hair style that best suits your face shape
# buy new makeup
# shave or wax off unpleasantly hairy spots
# purchase a few new sexy bras and panties that fit your body, find Bra Fitting Advice at Bare Necessities
# look like you've lost 20 lbs fast by wearing a Spanx Slim Cognito Shaping Mid-Thigh Bodysuit
Step 2: Attract More Bees with Honey
How nice are you? Seriously? Do you smile and invite people to talk to you with your body language, or do somehow seem to repel in your everyday life? Now is the time for you to start putting forth a more positive and warm attitude. Let's say you were a guy who walked into a room with 2 equally attractive women. One was smiling at you, while the other didn't even acknowledge your existence. Which girl would do you think would most likely give you a chance? You want to be the girl who is inviting and friendly, because men won't approach someone who seems cold or indifferent. So, remember to smile!
Step 3: Always Be Ready
You never know where you will meet Mr. Right. You might bump into him at the grocery store, at work, or even online. You want to remember to always have a positive attitude. Also, be sure to change up your routine from time to time, because you never know what good fortune those little differences can make. You might consider shopping at a different grocery store, or taking a new route to work.
*Tip: KEEP YOUR HOUSE (or room) CLEAN!
What to Keep in Your Bag ALL THE TIME
# travel perfume
# breath mints (have a constant supply -bad breath is NOT hot)
# comb
# foundation
# lipstick
# travel size hair styling product
Step 4: Creating the List
Before you can start looking, you want to narrow down what kind of a man are you looking for. Think like a marketing genius and start to sketch out your "target market". Is your potential mate short, tall, rich, or funny? Map out an ideal guy in your mind, and then flesh out a short list of qualities that your are looking for in a partner. Please also try and be realistic in your choices. You should always dream big, but if you won't settle for anything less than a smart, wealthy, famous and good looking man, you might find yourself alone for a long, long while.
Step 5: Hunting Season
So far you have worked on your looks, attitude, and choosing the type of guy you are looking for. Now you are ready to start hunting for potential partners. First things first, let your friends know you are on the hunt (and be sure to show them your list). Then start thinking about where these types of guys would hang out, and make an effort to show up at these locations or events. You should also try out one of many sophisticated online dating services available. Don't fall for the myth that only desparate people visit these sites. You'd be surprised at how many wonderful men also find it hard to find a date. I recently bumped into an old friend who found a young hunky attorney on Match.com that she thinks is "the one". Before you know it, you will be on your way to finding Mr. Right.
First Date Etiquette:
# don't talk about your desire to have children
# be sure to not bring up your ex
# shut off your cell phone
# be on time
# be on your best behavior
# let him talk
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