1. Strike up a small conversation. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. All girls are different, so be aware of the signs. Listen to the tone of her voice: if she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little higher and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping) or adjusting her clothes. Another sign she likes you is if she laughs at a normally boring or stupid joke. (Though, don't use bad jokes as a test, or you'll risk looking like a comedy loser.) She may not be able to look you straight in the eye and she might giggle a lot for no reason.(It also helps if you can actually make her laugh- don't get obvious about anything just yet)
2. Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Flirtatious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Because most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirtatious ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. Either way, don't "flirt around". Do not flirt with other girls. If she ever sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hug you, she may jump to conclusions and assume she doesn't mean anything to you.
3. Notice if she touches you more often than what friends do (she's constantly trying to touch your hand or something). If she finds excuses to do so, then you're probably on the right track. But conversely, don't assume that just because she isn't touching you that she doesn't like you. She may be too nervous of you to touch you yet. Break the touch barrier yourself.
4. Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it means she is nervous but she still likes you - which means that you should probably make the first move. If she holds the stare, then she is confident and she may make the first move. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction. Look for her eyes to light up when she sees you or hears your name.
5. Look at her friends. If you see most of her friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling, this means that she is telling her friends about you. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" Her friends might be making it up, however, just to tease her. When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means you were the subject of the recently ended conversation. If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: Who would you rather date, Who do you like better, Who is the hottest, etc. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and they're trying to search for clues to see how you feel about her.
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Thursday, February 4, 2010
How to find the perfect boyfriend
There is little doubt that almost every girl or woman is looking for Mr. Right, the man who will sweep her off her feet and change everything. For some, the quest is easy: They find Mr. Right in one of the first few guys they date. Others need to pick through a haystack in order to find him. Here are some useful tips:
1. Look around: Do you have any male friends who might have a love interest in you that you have overlooked? Boyfriends who have first been friends already know your crazy habits and quirks. They usually make great boyfriends because they have come to love the real you.
2. If none of those friends is the one, keep looking in the right places. Stay out of the bars and nightclubs, where you're more likely to find Mr. Right Now than Mr. Right. Try meeting people in the store, at the park, at work or anywhere people hang out, and just talk. Libraries are also a great meeting place, but you have to whisper.
3. Once you've found Mr. I Think He's the Right One, spend time with him--but don't overdo it. Too much of a good thing will get on your nerves and his. Instead, spend a few days each week hanging out and a few days apart.
4. Never give yourself away too quickly. No one wants someone they can have completely so easily. Love yourself enough not to involve yourself in sexual acts before you are sure this is the one. Looking for Mr. Right is a lot different than looking for Mr. Fun or Mr. Good Time. It involves patience, persistence and devotion--not only to him, but also to yourself.
5 additional Steps to Finding a Boyfriend
Step 1: Create a Hotter You
Let's imagine that you are selling your used car. Naturally, you will do everything you can to spruce up your car before putting the for-sale sign in the windshield, because you want to leave a good impression with your potential buyers.
You should do the same for yourself. Pull out a full length mirror and take a good hard look. Nobody is perfect, but you should try and look your personal best. Below are a few quick tasks that you can do this week to look better fast.
Get Hot Fast:
# get a fresh hair style that best suits your face shape
# buy new makeup
# shave or wax off unpleasantly hairy spots
# purchase a few new sexy bras and panties that fit your body, find Bra Fitting Advice at Bare Necessities
# look like you've lost 20 lbs fast by wearing a Spanx Slim Cognito Shaping Mid-Thigh Bodysuit
Step 2: Attract More Bees with Honey
How nice are you? Seriously? Do you smile and invite people to talk to you with your body language, or do somehow seem to repel in your everyday life? Now is the time for you to start putting forth a more positive and warm attitude. Let's say you were a guy who walked into a room with 2 equally attractive women. One was smiling at you, while the other didn't even acknowledge your existence. Which girl would do you think would most likely give you a chance? You want to be the girl who is inviting and friendly, because men won't approach someone who seems cold or indifferent. So, remember to smile!
Step 3: Always Be Ready
You never know where you will meet Mr. Right. You might bump into him at the grocery store, at work, or even online. You want to remember to always have a positive attitude. Also, be sure to change up your routine from time to time, because you never know what good fortune those little differences can make. You might consider shopping at a different grocery store, or taking a new route to work.
*Tip: KEEP YOUR HOUSE (or room) CLEAN!
What to Keep in Your Bag ALL THE TIME
# travel perfume
# breath mints (have a constant supply -bad breath is NOT hot)
# comb
# foundation
# lipstick
# travel size hair styling product
Step 4: Creating the List
Before you can start looking, you want to narrow down what kind of a man are you looking for. Think like a marketing genius and start to sketch out your "target market". Is your potential mate short, tall, rich, or funny? Map out an ideal guy in your mind, and then flesh out a short list of qualities that your are looking for in a partner. Please also try and be realistic in your choices. You should always dream big, but if you won't settle for anything less than a smart, wealthy, famous and good looking man, you might find yourself alone for a long, long while.
Step 5: Hunting Season
So far you have worked on your looks, attitude, and choosing the type of guy you are looking for. Now you are ready to start hunting for potential partners. First things first, let your friends know you are on the hunt (and be sure to show them your list). Then start thinking about where these types of guys would hang out, and make an effort to show up at these locations or events. You should also try out one of many sophisticated online dating services available. Don't fall for the myth that only desparate people visit these sites. You'd be surprised at how many wonderful men also find it hard to find a date. I recently bumped into an old friend who found a young hunky attorney on Match.com that she thinks is "the one". Before you know it, you will be on your way to finding Mr. Right.
First Date Etiquette:
# don't talk about your desire to have children
# be sure to not bring up your ex
# shut off your cell phone
# be on time
# be on your best behavior
# let him talk
1. Look around: Do you have any male friends who might have a love interest in you that you have overlooked? Boyfriends who have first been friends already know your crazy habits and quirks. They usually make great boyfriends because they have come to love the real you.
2. If none of those friends is the one, keep looking in the right places. Stay out of the bars and nightclubs, where you're more likely to find Mr. Right Now than Mr. Right. Try meeting people in the store, at the park, at work or anywhere people hang out, and just talk. Libraries are also a great meeting place, but you have to whisper.
3. Once you've found Mr. I Think He's the Right One, spend time with him--but don't overdo it. Too much of a good thing will get on your nerves and his. Instead, spend a few days each week hanging out and a few days apart.
4. Never give yourself away too quickly. No one wants someone they can have completely so easily. Love yourself enough not to involve yourself in sexual acts before you are sure this is the one. Looking for Mr. Right is a lot different than looking for Mr. Fun or Mr. Good Time. It involves patience, persistence and devotion--not only to him, but also to yourself.
5 additional Steps to Finding a Boyfriend
Step 1: Create a Hotter You
Let's imagine that you are selling your used car. Naturally, you will do everything you can to spruce up your car before putting the for-sale sign in the windshield, because you want to leave a good impression with your potential buyers.
You should do the same for yourself. Pull out a full length mirror and take a good hard look. Nobody is perfect, but you should try and look your personal best. Below are a few quick tasks that you can do this week to look better fast.
Get Hot Fast:
# get a fresh hair style that best suits your face shape
# buy new makeup
# shave or wax off unpleasantly hairy spots
# purchase a few new sexy bras and panties that fit your body, find Bra Fitting Advice at Bare Necessities
# look like you've lost 20 lbs fast by wearing a Spanx Slim Cognito Shaping Mid-Thigh Bodysuit
Step 2: Attract More Bees with Honey
How nice are you? Seriously? Do you smile and invite people to talk to you with your body language, or do somehow seem to repel in your everyday life? Now is the time for you to start putting forth a more positive and warm attitude. Let's say you were a guy who walked into a room with 2 equally attractive women. One was smiling at you, while the other didn't even acknowledge your existence. Which girl would do you think would most likely give you a chance? You want to be the girl who is inviting and friendly, because men won't approach someone who seems cold or indifferent. So, remember to smile!
Step 3: Always Be Ready
You never know where you will meet Mr. Right. You might bump into him at the grocery store, at work, or even online. You want to remember to always have a positive attitude. Also, be sure to change up your routine from time to time, because you never know what good fortune those little differences can make. You might consider shopping at a different grocery store, or taking a new route to work.
*Tip: KEEP YOUR HOUSE (or room) CLEAN!
What to Keep in Your Bag ALL THE TIME
# travel perfume
# breath mints (have a constant supply -bad breath is NOT hot)
# comb
# foundation
# lipstick
# travel size hair styling product
Step 4: Creating the List
Before you can start looking, you want to narrow down what kind of a man are you looking for. Think like a marketing genius and start to sketch out your "target market". Is your potential mate short, tall, rich, or funny? Map out an ideal guy in your mind, and then flesh out a short list of qualities that your are looking for in a partner. Please also try and be realistic in your choices. You should always dream big, but if you won't settle for anything less than a smart, wealthy, famous and good looking man, you might find yourself alone for a long, long while.
Step 5: Hunting Season
So far you have worked on your looks, attitude, and choosing the type of guy you are looking for. Now you are ready to start hunting for potential partners. First things first, let your friends know you are on the hunt (and be sure to show them your list). Then start thinking about where these types of guys would hang out, and make an effort to show up at these locations or events. You should also try out one of many sophisticated online dating services available. Don't fall for the myth that only desparate people visit these sites. You'd be surprised at how many wonderful men also find it hard to find a date. I recently bumped into an old friend who found a young hunky attorney on Match.com that she thinks is "the one". Before you know it, you will be on your way to finding Mr. Right.
First Date Etiquette:
# don't talk about your desire to have children
# be sure to not bring up your ex
# shut off your cell phone
# be on time
# be on your best behavior
# let him talk
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